Believe It Or Not (birth order trait)

Assalamualaikum and peace to all, now we are back with the new topic which is “Birth order traits”…do you ever notice that? If you don’t, so let’s check it out….

Firstborn,

The eldest son would have the feeling overlooked by parents. This is because the attention moves to the other child. This child has dethroned in the situation. He or she must learn to share with her sister.Parents are given high hopes to them since they were in pre_school. The parents’ always burden them with to these children compared with other siblings.The eldest will become a role model to the other child,so the effect of the influence received is likely to make the eldest son is quite strict and autocratic. They also feel he always had authority over younger siblings. He may be hardworking and always help their parent.

Second child,

The nature of these children are often more aggressive than the eldest son. He has always helped in many ways and always have supporters at the back of his success, whether from mother, father or sister or brother. He also has a higher competitiveness and often competing to become a better person than other siblings. The second child can be stubborn and always want to showing off.

Middle child,

According to Adler, the middle child is like a sandwich. Middle child often feels itself oppressed and do not stand out in the family.The attitude is also aggressive and irritable.In life, he or she always tries to find justice for themselves or for another person. He's a sharp contrast with the act.

Youngest child,

His life is guided by many leaders.The elder tried to tutor him and he seems to have a lot of mothers and fathers. However, they did not have a situation dethrone just like other siblings. They want to be big and powerful than others. They have great ambition but often failed in the middle of the road. Sometimes, the child is not growing maturity moreover they still childish even they already become a teenager.

However, every person can change the things and responsibility for the effect or consequences from the actions taken. Then, the individual has empowered to choose their own life style or shape their character. From our opinion, the theory somewhat is similar with our character, but we do not agreed with this theory because it will have big impact on our perception of life.