Thursday, January 20, 2011

Don't Get EXciteD (-o-)

Assalamualaikum and hello...

Peace to all, this week we want to expose the reason why people nowadays always related with late marriage. Getting married too early is not good sometimes because so many thing you have to learn about yourself such as who you want to be and where you want to go in life as you get older. The more chance you have of knowing exactly who you are if you are older. So in this particular case, we can classify as a personal growth. Then, its all about financially secure, therefore, this make that persons are more stable relationship in the long term. Waiting until later in life to get married makes good sense for this reason. If the economy is more stable, the fewer struggles you will have to go through in the marriage. Money isn't everything but it sure does help because money can change the situation or solving a problem sometimes. So make it stable and firm if you want to build a family. Money is one of the leading causes of divorce. It is much nicer not to have to worry about those things. Marriage already comes with enough things to have to work out. It is a terrible thing to see a couple ends their life together because the monthly bills were stacking up and the stress level was just too high for them to work through it. Furthermore, Getting married later in life also gives you some perspective on what you can tolerate. Many young people getting marry with the idea that they will change their mate. When the behavior does not change, they find themselves out of patience and at the end,divorcing will occurred.Then think it wisely before you get married. So we can conclude that, getting married later in life does not necessarily mean that the marriage will work. so its mean that you have more accessories to work with. It gives you more time to do the things you want to do in your single life and allows you to work through your own issues before tying someone else to them. Thats all from us....thank you and we hope you enjoy to read our post...=)


4 comments:

  1. Interesting topic being raised here. Perhaps you may find this intriguing: (http://www.chinapost.com.tw/asia/malaysia/2010/12/06/282543/Call-for.htm)

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  2. madam syerina & jatropos: thank you..

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